Sometimes you date someone who you think is totally awesome, but you could be wrong. As someone who has dated a loser, I admit, in the excitement of texting, hooking-up and the general confusion of it all, it is easy to make a mistake. You may accidentally give someone an unworthy amount of attention. Or you may be disillusioned into thinking someone is cool, even though he or she is definitely not.
There are two types of losers in the dating world: ones who have zero personality and can’t bring anything to the relationship, and those that are incredibly demanding and overpowering. Both will try to monopolize your time, monitor your Facebook and weed out your friends.
Priceless nights can pass until the realization comes that you’ve been wasting away with a complete zero. So when you voluntarily put yourself in this vulnerable phase of stupidity known as love, take a minute to think. You may have missed the following cues:
1. If your friends don’t like the person you are dating, then you are dating a loser. Let your confidants be your walking stick when you are blinded by love. Two thumbs down from friends means you need to ditch the clinger. Sure, you may be getting laid and think things are great, but if your friends really have a problem with your new sweetheart, things are going to get uncomfortable really fast. Your significant other’s presence will torture your group at every fun event and will become that ‘friend nobody likes.’
Ultimately, your friends want what is best for you. So trust them when they say your ‘baby’ sucks.
2. If the person you are dating doesn’t like your friends, this is a problem. It is even more of a problem if he or she feels the need to tell you. Boyfriends and girlfriends are only